Are you always doing something? Always working, studying, reading, writing, clicking, typing, teaching, meeting, Zooming, cooking, cleaning, washing, wiping, folding, planning, prepping or just plain worrying?
I know I am. And it was time to do nothing about it!
So I took a day off. I wasn���t going on vacation. I didn���t have a doctor���s appointment or need to care for a sick child. And I wasn���t taking my car in for service.
I had no to-do list. No home repair to tackle. Nothing.
I was a stick on a river called Nothing and I let it take me for a ride.
I just took a day off.
���I did nothing. I did absolutely nothing, and it was everything that I thought it could be.���
Film fans may recognize that line from Office Space. In the dark comedy, the main character, Peter, is asked what he would do if he had a million dollars. He says he would do nothing ��� and soon after, he does exactly that. A whole day of nothing. Doesn���t it sound grand?
Doing nothing, so to speak, is still doing something, just as avoiding a decision is still a decision. But on my day off ��� on Nothing Day ��� I had nothing planned, and it was everything I needed to reset and reenergize.
So, yes, I did do something on Nothing Day. But I did it all on my time, without any distractions. Even household chores felt relaxing without the constraints of a schedule or clingy children. I washed a load of towels, vacuumed the house and happily put away a basket of folded laundry that had been perched on the dining room table for days, silently taunting me every time I passed by. (I see you, baby clothes! And I will put you away whenever I feel like it! You���re not the boss of me!)
I got takeout from a new spot. Played with our pups in the backyard. And soaked up an audiobook uninterrupted.
I also listened to big band jazz as I leisurely prepared dinner, a refreshing change from the hastily thrown-together meals I concoct on most evenings. And I successfully took a short nap, which, for my anxious mind, is quite a feat.
I was a stick on a river called Nothing and I let it take me for a ride.
Between kids and work and chores and more, there���s always some to-do list lingering and lurking in the back of my brain.
Don���t forget dog food. Need a new rug. Mail that birthday card. Call a plumber. Update the sprinkler timer. Buy more toddler socks. Try to decipher the size charts to transition from toddler socks to children���s socks. Ponder the great expanse of the universe and assume it���s where all the toddler socks go.
But not today. Not on Nothing Day.
In a sense, it took a pandemic for me to take a day for myself. With my COVID-19 vaccination the day before, I requested this otherwise random Tuesday off in case my side effects were difficult to work around.
Fortunately, other than a tender arm, I felt a lot like I normally do ��� tired, sore and a bit run-down. You know, like a working mom with two young kids. Like most people these days. Like you, perhaps?
It���s funny to think about, but I actually had to make a plan to do nothing. I used to do nothing on a regular basis. Nothing and I were good friends. But this was back when email was exciting not exhausting and shopping resembled a saunter rather than Supermarket Sweep.
These days, it seems there���s always something and no time for nothing. We fill every bit of free time, every moment of silence with scrolling and swiping and streaming on a variety of glowing screens.
But if all the somethings are leaving you with nothing, it���s time to unplan, unplug and unwind, just for a bit.
I recognize there are different jobs, different life situations and even different personalities that make it easier or more difficult to enjoy a Nothing Day. But I hope that no matter who you are and what you do for a living, you can find time to pause, take a deep breath and take a day or an hour or just a few minutes away from your worries to do a whole lot of nothing.
Take a walk. Take a nap. Take the long way home. Just take a break! Turn nothing into something. You deserve it.
Bree Watson ���04 is senior copywriter with 91勛圖厙���s Communications and Marketing team. She can be reached at bree@ucf.edu.
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